Translation and reflections by S. Y. Kelake
The Quiet Door
A First Step Through the Tao Te Ching
All 81 chapters · about 330 pages in paperback · ebook
Written as the conversation you would have if you were sitting across the kitchen table from someone who has lived with this book for many years. Every one of the eighty-one chapters is given three ways: the verse, to be read slowly and aloud if you can; a plain prose retelling, the handrail for when the verse seems opaque; and a reflection on what the chapter has come to mean to one reader, with examples from the world we actually live in.
Each chapter has its own title, and many of them will stay with you on their own:
The Straw DogsThe Valley, Not the MountainBe Like WaterKnowing When to StopAn Architecture of AbsenceThe TiptoesForce Is the Wrong VerbThree Questions for a TuesdayDim Your BrillianceCook a Small FishThe Three TreasuresThe Living Are Soft
For my children — and yours.
Read the letter that opens the book
If you have just opened this book, here are a few things worth saying before you go any further. Think of this less as an introduction and more as the conversation we would have if you were sitting across from me at the kitchen table, holding a copy of the Tao Te Ching for the first time.
The second thing is that the book will sometimes seem odd. There are lines about straw dogs and bellows and infants who can grasp without understanding sex. There are passages that appear to recommend keeping people ignorant. There are long sections about how to govern a country, which you may not be planning to do this week. When you hit one of these moments, the advice is simple: do not get stuck.
One last word. The Tao Te Ching gives, in Chapter 67, what it calls the three treasures: love, moderation, and a refusal to push to the front. If you took nothing else from the book — if you read it once and put it on a shelf — and those three lived in you a little more than they had before, the book would have done its work. Everything else is commentary, including mine.
Go gently. Enjoy what you enjoy. Hold lightly what confuses you. Come back often.
Read from the closing letter
The fourth, and the most important, is that wisdom is not a thing you finish acquiring. The book is not a course you complete. It is a companion. The work of becoming the kind of person Lao Tzu describes — soft, attentive, humble, generous, quiet, present — is the work of a whole life. You will do it in small instalments. You will fail at it often. You will return to it. You will do it again.
Hold lightly what confuses you. Enjoy what you enjoy. Come back often.
Go gently.
Look inside: three chapters in full and all 81 titles